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Don’t “should” yourself!

How often do you should yourself? I should clean my house. I should lose weight. I should exercise. I should work harder. I should read Katharine’s new book (LOL.) The problem with that word is that it implies that you are obligated to do it. It’s the right thing to do. It also implies the follow-up thought […]

What will you do with your extra day?

This short month of February is between major holidays of past 2023 and upcoming spring 2024 holidays. This is a month to celebrate so much: Black History Month; Presidents; and Valentine’s to name a few. In this leap year you receive the gift of an extra day! Dedicate February 29 to you. Take the time […]

Is Five Years Enough Time to Grieve?

This is the five-year anniversary of my husband’s death. I thought I was doing really great with the whole grief experience as I believed five years would be enough time to grieve. We have all been told so many cliches: They are always with you. The love is always there. You have all the wonderful […]

Looking back, how does 2023 feel?

Welcome to 2024! We are at the beginning of a new year full of expectations, making plans, setting goals, and moving forward. Some of us are looking back reflecting on accomplishments as well as unfinished business. How does all of that make you feel? Are you happy with the results? Are you feeling good about […]

The Maze Of Frustration

Now that my new book “The Ultimate Path to Forgiveness” is officially “out”, here’s one last excerpt. —- Thousands of books and articles have been written about forgiveness and its benefits. So why do people have such a hard time with it? Some can’t forgive because the person or act was unforgivable. That’s fair. Others simply […]

Love Never Dies

Happy holidays everyone! I know 2023 has been difficult for many people out there. I also know that at this time of the year there are a lot of people missing loved ones. We have lost so many people! I just want you to know that your loved ones are there. You can speak to […]

Reflections

The change in temperature during this time of year signals the change in our calendar as well. As we cool off, we reflect over last year’s hot mess and plan for next year’s shining goals. Cooling can be cathartic – slowing down our pace, taking deep breathes, and just chilling. Yet this part of the […]